Fresh from a trip to Tokyo, Sofia Vergara paid a visit to Laura Brown’s web series “The Look” from Harper’s Bazaar magazine.

The “Modern Family” starlet met up with Harper’s executive editor at the famous Serendipity 3 eatery in New York City where they enjoyed frozen hot chocolates and the world’s most expensive ice cream Sunday (with a $1000 price tag).

During the course of the conversation, Laura asked, “Do people expect you to be sexy all the time, and is that exhausting?”

Sofia replied, “You know sometimes I see a little bit of disappointment because they see me as a little skinnier than on TV. I try [to look sexy] and I make my accent thicker but I still see the disappointment on their faces.”